YOU AND YOUR HOME

Woman, the you outside reflects the you at home. How peaceful your home is determines the result and achievement for the day. For you and your home to be at peace, you have lots of prices and sacrifices to pay. For your home to be blissful, there are certain unwholesome character traits that you must give up.

Eph. 5:22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. The word of God that is our guide here clearly stated all you need as a woman to enjoy your marriage and to get the best from your husband and to also have a blissful home, which can be reflected in our lives outside the home, in order for us to fulfill purpose and be a blessing. The key word here from God the initiator of marriage to the woman is
"SUBMISSION".

A submissive woman is one who is ready to adjust to the new life of a married woman and to put away certain old ways that does not permit a blissful home. You must be prepaid to submit fully to your God given and chosen husband. As a single lady, certain things you were used to before you got married , may not fit into this new atmosphere of a married life. Remember, now that you are married, you must now live to please your husband, God’s word said so. 1 Cor 7:34…. But she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. You must find out ways to always please your husband and also know certain things you should give up or sacrifice in order to get the best of your husband.

SOME THINGS TO GIVE UP

Your old way of dressing: If this offends your husband, please adjust and dress to please him. Before our wedding, John told me that there are certain ways l was dressing which he wouldn’t want as a Minister’s wife, after our wedding, l adjusted immediately to please him and also to have a blissful home (Submission is the key word). Now as a married woman, you cannot afford to dress the way you like.

Friends: There are some friends that you can no longer keep now that you are married. It is a worthwhile sacrifice to get a better thing (home). If your husband dose not approve of certain of your single, even married women friends, don’t fight over the issue, remember, you have to adjust, it is all for your good.

Food: Before l got married, l could just eat whatever l like, but when the moment of reality came soonest after we got married, John simply said, woman, l don’t want you eating this and I don’t want you eating that, should l fight him, no, all l did was to obey for peace to reign and for the sake of a happy home. If your husband is offended by the reason of certain food, please stay off. John my husband did the same for me; he gave up certain habits, foods and friends just to make me happy. If you submit wholeheartedly to your husband you will earn his undying love and respect.

You should at all time remember that it is only a winner that is celebrated, stand for your home and make it work; let your marriage encourage other single ladies out there to desire marriage. I pray for the wisdom of God upon your life to make your marriage blissful.

For more tips on a blissful home, contact Pastor Becky at beckyefetobor@gmail.com. God bless your marriage. Amen.

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THE WOMAN GOD CREATED YOU TO BE

Why do we have lots of women in our society today not fulfilling God’s plan and purposes for their lives? living as if they are not relevant and have nothing to render to a world waiting for an answer from manifesting the potential God has place for them even at creation. By the grace of God, l shall be sharing some lies that some women have come to believe about them.


But let me remind you again, woman God created you to be a helpmate to your husband and to bring fulfillment to his life and also to help him fulfill God’s plan and purposes for his live. Remember, if you as a woman neglect this great assignment, you would have not only fail yourself, but your generation and your creator. It is an honor to be a woman of virtue; so, do not allow these societal lies I'm about to share with you rob you of your happiness.

THESE LIES ARE AS FOLLOWS:-

YOU CAN’T MAKE IT

I have seen mothers who have sundenly realized that they can’t make it and have decided that they don’t even want to try. So many women are running away from their God given responsibility under the guise that l cannot cope, but the word of God in Phil 4:13 says: I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. God’s word cannot lie. You can and must be a light to your home and a support to your husband, then a blessing to your society at large.

PLAYING THE ROLE OF THE MAN

This lie has caused so many women to adopt attributes and behaviors that run contrary to their natural characteristics and temperament, these women have been untrue to themselves as they have tried to be what God has not created them to be. Woman your role in the home cannot be the same as that of the man who is the head and captain of the home. If you see your role as the same, how will you submit and obey him or see him as the head of the home. We are called to be a helpmeet, to compliment his effort as the head, a husband and the father of the home. Let me say here that obedience does not make you inferior. And knowing these differences may help you to be more comfortable being a woman.

MOTHERHOOD CAN BE POSTPONED WITHOUT PENALTY

Most women believe that to achieve their purposes in life, they have to postponed marriage and delay motherhood for the sake of a career. In doing so, they ignore the fact that their reproductive system was not designed to last long, by the you realise your error, you may not be able to make up for the lost time. This is not the plan and purpose of God for a you. If a woman puts off motherhood for too long, her desire for children could end up never being fulfilled. God said be fruitful and multiply Gen 1:28. How many marriages today in our society are breaking up just because of the issue of childlessness, and most women, truly, at the end, are not happy and fulfilled as a result of childlessness.

AS A CARRER WOMAN, I CAN DO WITHOUT A MAN

This is another lie that has greatly affected a lot of women that later ended up as a single parent, or not getting married at all. As a Godly woman, you need a man to call your own, a man to bear his name no matter your level of accomplishment. God said, you as a rib was taken from a man, so you need that man so that you can fill up the missing rib. You belong to a man, just one man in marriage. So, erase this lie from your mind, that you have achieved so much shouldn't make you not to submit to a man as your husband, you need a man as a covering over your achievement and the world will so much honor you.

CONFRONT THESE LIES

Are you a child of God? Do you know his will and plan for you, if not; you cannot deliver yourself from these lies. All you need to do right now is to commit your life into the hand of your creator and ask him to help you.

For more tips on a blissful home, contact Pastor Becky at beckyefetobor@gmail.com. God bless your marriage. Amen.

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BORN FOR A PURPOSE

Have you ever sat down and do a thorough thinking as to why the Greatest Artist and Creator design and created you the way you are? In the midst of thousands of women out there, none is like you; you are just so unique and peculiar in your own way, because in the mind of your creator, he created you so wonderfully well to be able to fit into his plan and purpose for your life.

If you do not see yourself as this, you can never appreciate the role God called you to play in the life of your husband. There is a question in the life of every man that you must answer, until this is done, that particular man cannot achieve success, or don’t you remember the word of our Creator in Gen 2:18 And the LORD God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him. So, if you do not see what God said concerning you in this scripture you can never be relevant to your husband.

Woman of purpose, don’t you see how important you are to your husband? Why not wake up right now and begin to fulfill your destiny role in his life. How do you feel seeing that precious man God created you for going through a terrible time just because of negligence of your assignment in his life. Many women today are driving their husband crazy just because of this factor (negligence of duty).

No other woman can take your place in the life of the man God sent you to, if this is true, woman wake up and fulfil that purpose. By not responding to your role in his life as a helpmeet, you create a void in his life that only you can fill.

HOW TO FULFIL PURPOSE

BE HIS FRIEND. Prov. 18:24 And there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother. This is who you should be to your husband. You are not just anybody, but a precious friend at all time. Are you his friend? You must give your husband the full benefit of doubt that you are a trusted friend, someone he knows cares for him, no matter the circumstances and challenges of life, someone that he can talk to and get the kind of encouragement that says, honey! l am here for you. l understand what you are going through. Can your husband call you his very good friend? You are his wife, but for peace and happiness to last in your home and for you to succeed as a helper, you must demonstrate the attitude of a good friend.

YOU MUST LOVE HIM UNCONDITIONALLY

For you to fulfil purpose in the life of your husband you must love him as God instructed you, because without love you can't be a submissive helpmeet.You are married to your husband for a purpose. All successful marriages today are built on solid foundation of friendship and love, all other points come under this two. I am asking you dear friend, do you really love that?
Prov 14:1 Every wise woman builds her house. To be able build a good home, you need wisdom to manage your marriage well.

I pray for you today that God will give you Grace and Wisdom to accomplish his purpose for your life concerning your husband and home. God bless you.

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