The benefits of closeness in marriage

When it comes to the issue of harmony in marriage, closeness between you and your husband can not be over emphasize. It is a vital ingredient that keeps marriage When couples are not united and work in love, it is very easy for them to experience what l call, communication breakdown, and when this occur there is bound to be problem in the home.
In order for you not to experience this problem of communication breakdown, l want you to pay attention to some vital truth about closeness in marriage. Gen 2:24 Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. As a wife, you cannot afford to distance yourself from your husband, remember the Bible said you are now one flesh.

For you to experience and maintain marital closeness with your husband, you the wife must first express your heart felt desire to be your husband’s best friend, then both of you must remain the best of friends. Every woman's desire to be told by her husband of his dream, his vision, plans for the family, and how things went in the office at the end of each day. A woman must cultivate a good listening ability whenever her husband needs her attention. A man will be happy to know that his wife is very close to him, this makes him to always want to be with the wife all the time, instead of being with friends outside the home.


THE BENEFITS

1. It helps you to build trust and confidence in each other. Trust is an essential ingredient in a blissful home. Closeness to your husband opens you up to his heart; he will find it difficult to tell you lie.

2. Free flow of communication builds up confidence in each other and this can only happens when you are very close to your husband. There is always no secret between you both.

3. Understanding of each other is greatly enhanced by the reason of closeness. It makes both of you to reason alike, and your opinion about things most of the time are the same.

4. It keeps off third party. If you do not trust your husband you can always believe whatever report anybody gives you about him. I am so close to my husband and l trust him so much that there is no negative report anyone will tell me about him that will bother me. If you are not close to him, third parties can always come to cause problem in your marriage.

As a woman of purpose, do not permit doubt into your home and marriage. When you start doubting your husband you are giving the enemy room to penetrate into your marriage to destroy it. So, closeness in marriage is a medicine that keeps intruders away from your home affairs. Woman as you read this article, if you know that this ingredient of closeness is missing in your marriage, please rush home now and put things in order. Let it start from you.

Remember your first date, how romantic it was; how you always long for his presence, you can make it happen again. If you are not close to him, you cannot know the area of his strength and weakness. It is a matter of choice, choose to be close to your husband and have a good marriage or choose not to be close and have a frustrating marriage, the choice is yours. I advice that you should be close to your husband and enjoy your marriage.

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